The Lost Child - A Baby Elephant

March 15, 2025

Love and tenderness from a stranger.

It was nearing the end of the day and we had not seen much despite the long hours of driving through the park and the private reserve in Amboseli, Kenya. My guide Juma and I were frustrated, a whole day gone by without anything substantial to see or photograph.

On the far horizon, a baby elephant follows its mother

On the far horizon, a baby elephant follows its mother

The sun dipped low over the dusty plains casting a golden hue on the landscape. The air was warm and filled with the earthy scent of the savanna. As we drove slowly through the park, on the horizon appeared a majestic sight that would linger in our memories forever—a mother elephant and her baby, engaged in a tender moment of play.

A baby elephant follows its mother urging her to stop soon.

A baby elephant follows its mother urging her to stop soon.

At first, we saw the mother walking rapidly towards an unknown destination. Her trunk was raised up and resting on the tusks. The baby was struggling to keep up, stretching his trunk to keep it touching the mother’s tail, a gesture that is often seen in such situations, the baby being reassured that it is still within reach of its parent.

A baby elephant and mother expressing love for each other.

A baby elephant and mother expressing love for each other.

Then suddenly, the mother turned around and the baby caught up with her, rubbing its head against her legs while the female draped her trunk over its rump in a protective gesture.

Baby elephant tucks itself under the mother's protective trunk

Baby elephant tucks itself under the mother's protective trunk

Baby elephants will often tuck themselves under the trunk and the front legs of the mother or any other adult, the smallest young ones even getting under the belly, between the front and back legs. It is an iconic sight and so sought after by wildlife lovers and photographers alike.

Mother supports the baby elephants small trunk as it tries to pull at the grass.

Mother supports the baby elephants small trunk as it tries to pull at the grass.

Here too, the baby kept inserting itself between the mother’s trunk and forelegs, weaving in and out and walking around the big elephant. She, meanwhile, stayed in one place and for almost an hour we had the most glorious scene playing out in our presence.

Baby elephant signaling with its trunk from the protection of its mother.

Baby elephant signaling with its trunk from the protection of its mother.

Baby elephant pushes against its mother for attention

Baby elephant pushes against its mother for attention

Mother and baby elephant take a short rest as egrets wait for them to start moving again.

Mother and baby elephant take a short rest as egrets wait for them to start moving again.

As always, the ever-present cattle egrets enjoyed the game, snapping up the insects that kept popping out of the grass by the movement of the elephants, a common mode for these birds to feed which is why like lampreys on sharks, they are always hanging around elephants and large mammals.

Baby elephant reaching out to mother's teat trying to start feeding.

Baby elephant reaching out to mother's teat trying to start feeding.

The little fellow, driven by an instinctive urge, kept attempting to feed. Its trunk reaching up, fumbling and searching for its mother's teats. The mother stood still for a moment but then moved away and turned around to face the opposite direction. The baby, hungry and frustrated, walked around the mother to try from the other side.

Baby elephant walks around the mother to get to the other side for more feeding

Baby elephant walks around the mother to get to the other side for more feeding

I watched in awe, my camera forgotten at times, in the face of such raw, unfiltered beauty. It was a privilege to witness this intimate moment, to share in the joy and tenderness of these magnificent creatures. The dusty plains of Amboseli had offered us a glimpse into the heart of the wild, a reminder of the delicate balance of life and the enduring power of love.

Baby elephant reaching out for milk.

Baby elephant reaching out for milk.

Time seemed to stand still and yet, it moved on. The baby kept trying to feed while in a strange behavior, the mother remained restless, turning around within a few moments, while the baby kept going to one or the other side to access the teats. All this time, the nudging, the touching with the trunks, the caressing movements by the mother and the apparent closeness continued unabated.





As the baby tried to feed, the mother looked around, her eyes scanning the horizon for any signs of danger. In the wild, vigilance is a constant necessity, and she was ever the protector. Her trunk was unusually, raised and rested on her tusks for most of this time, sometimes falling and draping over the baby when it snuggled up to her. It seemed that she was searching, and her eyes seemed to be scanning the horizon and smelling the air constantly.

Baby elephant finally gets to feed as its mother stands still

Baby elephant finally gets to feed as its mother stands still

As the sun continued its descent, casting long shadows across the plains, the mother decided to move on, gently guiding the baby away, their silhouettes merging with the landscape. And as they disappeared into the golden dust, we were left with a sense of peace and gratitude for the encounter.

Adult female elephant leading baby to find its own family

Adult female elephant leading baby to find its own family

As beautiful as it was, the behavior of the mother was unusual and strange, not allowing the baby to feed properly, constantly looking up at the horizon and smelling the air. The entire episode highlighted the strong bonds that the elephants in general share with one another, not just their own family. It was apparent at the end of this long witnessing that the baby actually did not belong to the female, it was not her child after all. To all accounts it was a lost child, a baby that had wandered off from its original family and to its good fortune had found this generous and kind adult who did her best to fill the role of its mother. Perhaps she did not have a baby of her own and therefore could not produce any milk to feed this unknown child, else he would have been sated after multiple attempts to feed.

We informed the Amboseli Trust for Elephants, an organization that looks after the welfare of all the elephants in the area. The next morning their team searched the location based on our GPS coordinates but could not find this duo anywhere. They also did not see any lone baby elephants wandering around. The conclusion drawn by them was that the baby had finally found its original family after all.

In the heart of Amboseli, I had witnessed a dance of life—a female elephant and a lost baby - playing, comforting each other, the maternal instincts of the adult on full display, refusing to abandon the baby, caring for it and perhaps, in the end, leading it back to his own mother.

It was a moment that would stay with me forever, a reminder of the beauty and fragility of the world we share. And as we drove away, the golden dust swirling in our wake, I knew that we had been part of something truly special.

Amboseli National Park and Kitirua Conservancy, Kenya. January 2025

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